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Showing posts with label Pride. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Pride. Show all posts

Friday, October 12, 2012

Love is Not Puffed Up - (Day Twelve)


"Love suffers long and is kind; love does not envy; love does not parade itself, is not puffed up; does not behave rudely, does not seek its own, is not provoked, thinks no evil; does not rejoice in iniquity, but rejoices in the truth; bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. Love never fails." 

1 Corinthians 13:4-8a

I have a heart for missions. Whether it be flying half way around the globe, or traveling within the same state, I am always amazed at what God can do in and through me in the time spent away from the "norm". Needless to say I was excited and looking forward to seven days overflowing with adventure in God's wilderness, quiet times with Him, and being used to make an impact in the lives of those I would encounter. To put the cherry on the top I was eager to have a close friend of mine join me on this endeavor. Little did I know the week wouldn't go quite as I had planned.

Have you ever been around someone who constantly makes you feel like you have nothing to offer? Anything you do or say is overlooked as they tend to step on you as they boast about their abilities, their accomplishments, and their knowledge? All the while you are left with a heavy heart and bruises from the punches. 

"While knowledge makes us feel important, it is love that strengthens the church" 1 Corinthians 8:1b (NLT). Knowledge, in itself, is not a bad thing to desire, but like Proverbs 31:26 says, "When she speaks, her words are wise, and she gives instruction with kindness" (NLT), it's HOW it is given that matters...the heart behind it.

Not unlike the Biblical days of the Pharisees and Sadducees, we are still faced with those that have an inflated estimation of themselves, feeling as though they hold a greater understanding and are above the individuals around them. But love doesn't do that. LOVE accepts people where they're at, it does not exhort itself as one who has far superior knowledge, and it also guards us from having an exaggerated view of our own significance.

If our hearts are so consumed with ourselves, our own happiness, and our well being and we're willing to beat people over the head with our knowledge, then we will have no room for the needs of others. In return we will lose love. It's only by applying God's power of meekness and humility that can we find the antidote to arrogance (or pride).

Love,
Ashley

Thursday, October 11, 2012

Love Does Not Parade Itself - (Day Eleven)

"Love suffers long and is kind; love does not envy; love does not parade itself, is not puffed up; does not behave rudely, does not seek its own, is not provoked, thinks no evil; does not rejoice in iniquity, but rejoices in the truth; bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. Love never fails." 

1 Corinthians 13:4-8a
Love is not a power grabber, controller, nor is prideful.  Pride is an undesirable attribute.  It is at the very core of Satan’s nature and the reason he was thrown out of Heaven.  However, it is prevalent in our world of self…self-promotion, self-satisfaction, and self-love, after which everyone takes a bow. 

Peter wrote in 1 Peter 5:5-6 (NLT) that “God opposes the proud but favors the humble.  So humble yourselves under the mighty power of God, and at the right time he will lift you up in honor.”  Jesus taught and modeled perfect humility.  He is our ultimate example of humility in its perfect form.   

It is only by way of a humble mind that we will see and understand that our achievements and worth come from God’s love for us through the grace of His Son.  All have sinned and all we have is from God.  In no way can we (or should we!) take personal credit for His eternal blessings; something the world can’t produce. 

We can’t expect God to use us to reach the unsaved with a condescending attitude.  There is no room for us as Christians to determine to look good, impress, or lord over others.  Christ said in Luke 14:11 that everyone who exalts themselves will be humbled. 

A humble LOVE is courteous and willing to admit to one’s deficiencies, faults and sins, and considers others first.    

Forever His,
Anita

For further study, you may want to check out these Scriptures on humility and pride:
Proverbs 3:33,34, Proverbs 11:2, 15:25, 16:18, 16:5, 18:12, and 22:4, Isaiah 57:15, 1 Peter 5:6, and James 4:6.