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Sunday, October 14, 2012

Love Does Not Seek It's Own - (Day Fourteen)

“Love suffers long and is kind; love does not envy; love does not parade itself, is not puffed up; does not behave rudely, does not seek its own, is not provoked, thinks no evil; does not rejoice in iniquity, but rejoices in the truth; bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. Love never fails.”
1 Corinthians 13:4-8a

Humble. Meek. Patient. He has the heart of a servant and is relentlessly concerned about the needs of others, constantly putting them before his own. He always gives, expecting nothing in return. He'll be the man holding the door open for everyone who follows after him...even if his party has already been seated. He is content, faithful, and most of all selfless.

That's my dad.

He is and has been the best example to me and the lives of those around him of what it means to clearly demonstrate the words Paul talks about in Philippians 2:3-4 which says:

"Let nothing be done through selfish ambition or conceit, but in lowliness of mind let each esteem others better than himself.  Let each of you look out not only for his own interest, but also for the interests of others." (NKJV)

With the corrupt "me centered" culture we live in, that is permeated with entitlements and always looking out for "#1", it should not be a shocker to us when we find this same self-seeking attitude within the walls of the church. Sin is wrapped in self. Our focus is self.  But LOVE...is selfless.

A couple of other translations of 1 Corinthians 13:5 put it this way:

"...it does not demand its own way" (NLT)
"...it is not self-seeking" (NIV)

In rooting ourselves in selfishness, we lose our sense of caring for others and can easily get caught up in narcissistic behavior. Turn on the television and you're able to find an array of sitcoms and reality shows that promote this manner. But, when we're so busy being all about me, myself, and I...that we fall into the trap of what the world recommends by "living in the moment." We cease to read our Bibles, quit going to church, and withdrawal from fellowship. We even stop praying because things aren't going our way and in return our relationship with Him suffers immensely.

We lose our connection with Christ.

When we exhibit an attitude of being others-focused rather than one that is self-focused, we demonstrate the servanthood of Jesus. As Christians, isn't this what we should desire?

Love,
Ashley

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