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Saturday, October 13, 2012

Love Does Not Behave Rudely - (Day Thirteen)

“Love suffers long and is kind; love does not envy; love does not parade itself, is not puffed up; does not behave rudely, does not seek its own, is not provoked, thinks no evil; does not rejoice in iniquity, but rejoices in the truth; bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. Love never fails.”
1 Corinthians 13:4-8a

I am reminded of rude behavior daily as I watch the sparing going on in various Social Media networks.  Somebody posts a benign comment or opinion and individuals jump all over it by posting rude and offensive comments.  Tempers flare and the fight begins.  Disparaging remarks about race and tactics causing division is so unfortunate and prevalent in today’s society. 

This unbecoming behavior being modeled by adults is now being mirrored in our country’s children.  As a child, I remember the social graces instilled in me barred any discourteous comments or conduct toward another grownup.  There was no tolerance for rude manners.

Today is different.  Teachers experience impolite actions of students in their classroom.  Store owners hear the inappropriate speech by kids who want to disrupt their customers.  Public display of disrespect is widespread.  Even on the sitcoms we watch on TV we hear puns made at the expensive of others.  Under the auspice of humor we hear cutting remarks and condescending tones with arguments, by both children and adults, fueling the flame.  This rude conduct has become acceptable.

As Christians, the way we treat people has a direct correlation on how we mirror our Lord.  The love spoken of in this verse reflects and adheres to the principals found in His Word and is demonstrated through our respect and dignity toward others.  God doesn’t want us to dampen the spirits of those around us.  In fact, He forever encourages us to place the needs of others first.       

God is glorified by the way we lead our lives…the more we get to know Christ, the more we allow Christ’s LOVE to flow out of us.  When we are polite and thoughtful it takes the spot light off of ourselves and demonstrates love for those nearby.  When was the last time you let someone behind you in a grocery line go before you?  Do you find yourself so stuck on your own needs that you can’t possibly rearrange your schedule to fit in with another’s?  In your conversations with your friends and family, do you contemplate how you can get “one-up” on them?    

The evidence shown is a direct correlation to our level of faith.  “Even so, every good tree bears good fruit, but a bad tree bears bad fruit.  A good tree cannot bear bad fruit, nor can a bad tree bear good fruit.  Every tree that does not bear good fruit is cut down and thrown into the fire.   Therefore by their fruits you will know them” (Matthew 7:17-20 (NKJV).

What kind of fruit is growing on your tree?

Forever His,
Anita 

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